2-27-11 Lesson Summary: Teachings of our Time

Teachings of Our Time

“Courageous Parenting”

by Elder Larry R. Lawrence

Sister Runnels

There are no perfect parents and no easy answers, but there are principles of truth that we can rely on. 

1. "Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid" (Joshua 1:9). In these last days, what the world really needs is courageous parenting from mothers and fathers who are not afraid to speak up and take a stand. 

2. It's so important for husbands and wives to be united when making parenting decisions. If either parent doesn't feel good about something, then permission should not be granted. Have the courage to support each other and say no. 

3. Parents can prevent a lot of heartache by teaching their children to postpone romantic relationships until the time comes when they are ready for marriage. It is vital that parents have th courage to speak up and intervene before Satan succeeds. 

4. Nothing really good happens late at night and young people need to know what time they are expected to come home. There is a great deal of wisdom displayed when parents stay up and wait for their children to return home. They make far better choices when they know their parents are waiting up to hear about their evening and to kiss them good night. Peer pressure becomes more powerful when our children are away from our influence and when their defenses are weakened late at night. If you have ever felt uneasy about an overnight activity, don't be afraid to respond to that warning voice inside.

5. Courageous parenting does not always involve saying no. Parents also need courage to say yes to the counsel of modern-day prophets.

There are five fundamental practices that have the power to fortify our youth: Family prayer, family scripture study, family home evening, family dinner together, and regular one-on-one interviews with each child.